March 30

The Rule of Three

By AfterDinnerSpeaker

March 30, 2020

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Imagine you have a thirty minute presentation to give. Well in this article I’m going to give you the heads up on how to go about preparing it in a way that makes it easy and takes all the pressure away.

Instead of trying to learn either the skeleton or content of a thirty minute speech – we cheat – or should I say we work smarter!

We adopt the rule of three.

How Does It Work?

Here is how I go about it.

In a thirty minute speech I know I’ll lose at LEAST three minutes through interaction – this is usually laughter but can be other interruption.

I also know as a professional after dinner speaker that I have to stick to time as people have to get home etc.

Firstly I prepare a 27 minute speech at a medium speed of talking – definitely not fast!

If it looks like I am short on time – less than thirty minutes (I’ll have a timer in front of me away from the gaze of the audience) I have several “fillers” I can put in to add a few minutes.

This may be a joke, a thank you to someone, a few words about the organisation, the weather or whatever! but it’s up my sleeve just in case, and I will weave it in so it flows naturally – that’s the secret – not just say – I’ve got three minutes to fill, let me tell you a joke!

DIVISION OF SPEECH

Next I divide by three so I end up with three sections of nine minutes. The smarter readers will note my original 27 minutes is divisible by three so giving three x nine minute slots.

Why am I using three. Simple, remembering four, five, six or seven is a lot harder. Three is logical for example I now have a :

  • Beginning
  • Middle
  • End

Each will be nine minutes in it’s way – so I will always know accurately where I am and how long I’m into the speech – more importantly how long I have left.

In the “beginning” – I will subdivide it into – you’ve guessed it – three sections of three minutes. Maybe “Welcome Intro” “thank you’s” “funny story about committee”

This is a rough guide but you will quickly see I have a structure forming. Once I’ve completed the “beginning” this will be repeated for the “middle” and the “end”.

Once I have my nine elements (3 x 3) I will put more work into their content and I can practice three minute sections very easily until I can do it almost without notes because THREE is easy to remember.

If you never read another word in this blog take home the Rule of Three – it makes life simple and will empower you to be confident.

AfterDinnerSpeaker

About the author

Kevan is an after-dinner speaker, compere and host.

He is available for sporting, charitable and corporate dinners/events, and occasions, and available to work in South Wales, the South of England, London and other regions by arrangement.

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